6 Tips For Travelling With Kids During The School Holidays 

We’ve made it through the winter and the miserable March weather, which means the Easter holidays are here and we can finally look forward to a few days away from school, studies and work. 

Whether you’re planning a modest staycation, a big hurrah to an overseas destination or simply driving to spend a long-weekend with relatives, travelling with children can be a big undertaking, so we’re sharing some of our top tips for travelling with kids so you can get from A to B with minimal stress during the school holidays.

1.Devices are your friend.

Many people will be familiar with the palaver of taking hand luggage packed full of different activities on a flight. You can find yourself yoyo-ing up and down from your seat to fetch a different toy from overhead storage and then back up five minutes later because someone has emptied the entire contents of a Ribena onto their clothes!

As many airlines now charge extra for carry-on luggage, the less you can afford to take the better so, while we don’t usually advocate for extended screen time, devices can be a godsend for parents while travelling. 

You can install a child-friendly series, music or educational games and apps so your little ones are kept busy on plane, train and long car journeys and you have extra room in your bag for the essentials. Here’s some of our favourite apps that will appeal to children of varying ages and enrich their learning:

Educational:

Strategy-based games and puzzles:

2. Create a DIY Activity Book

Encourage children to make an activity book for themselves before they leave home by printing out simple puzzles, games or outline drawings they can colour in on the journey. You can also leave some blank pages for them to write stories or draw their own pictures of things that inspire them on the way. 

Once you’ve collected all the pages you’d like to include, either sew or staple to bind everything together. Children then have a bespoke activity book to get their creative juices flowing and keep them busy while you’re on the move.

3. Play Travel Games 

Whether you’re staying on home turf or you’re bound for an overseas location, travel provides children and families with fantastic new experiences such as new foods, different landscapes and exposure to other cultures. But long journeys can be a challenge for younger passengers so having travel games up your sleeve can make the trip that bit more bearable for everyone. Here’s some of our favourites:

  • I-Spy - A family classic that can be played in cars, on trains and at the airport

  • Word Association Game - The first player says a word out loud then, moving in a clockwise order, the next player must come up with a word they associate with the previous one. The game continues until someone cannot come up with a word.

  • Rhyming Game -  As with the word association game, the first player says a word out loud then, moving in a clockwise order, the next player must come up with a rhyming word. The game continues until someone cannot come up with a word.

  • The Alphabet Game - The first player chooses a category (like foods or animals) and kicks off the game by saying the name of something from the category beginning with A. Moving in a clockwise order, every participant then moves through the alphabet until someone gets stuck!

4. Listen to an Audiobook

Reading is an essential skill for children as it supports their language development and understanding of punctuation. If your child is a keen reader then taking a book (or selection of books) on a plane or train journey during the school holidays is something we encourage. If you’re travelling by car then reading can trigger motion sickness which is something no passenger wants to endure but that’s where audiobooks come in handy.

Audiobooks provide a nice auditory alternative to music in the car. It’s more than likely everyone has different music tastes and Baby Shark on loop can make even a 20-minute drive along the North Circular feel like you’ve travelled to Penzance and back.

Listening to an audiobook helps mitigate that risk and provide a calming environment to ensure children are settled while you’re on the move.  But audiobooks also have a plethora of other benefits:

  • In the absence of pictures, your child must use their imagination to visualise the story and the characters.

  • Audiobooks engage children in a different way so may open them up to other genres you’ve not previously explored.

  • If driving, you could play the audiobook through the speakers so all passengers can bond and enjoy the story together.

  • It can enhance your child’s vocabulary and develop their listening skills.

Listening to an audiobook needn’t be limited to just your journey either. This may spark a new habit and is something you can easily take out and about with you so children can continue listening when they have down time or feel fidgety.

5. Be strategic with travel times 

We know that when travelling overseas, flight times are often dictated by cost but regardless of the form of transport you’re taking we encourage you to try and travel overnight or at a period that coincides with scheduled nap times.

Children under 12 will need between nine and fourteen hours of sleep per day and disrupting this means you may end up with ratty children which can make journeys hellish and can spoil the trip for everyone!

6. Don’t go overboard with sugar 

During school holidays, families are often more inclined to be lenient with bedtimes and sugary treats. With Easter coming up we expect chocolate and candy won’t be in short supply but be mindful of quantities and when in the day children are having sugar. 

A combination of sweet treats and adrenaline before travelling can have children bouncing off the walls but when some of this excitement eventually wears off, children will likely have an energy crash and become irritable.

Reducing sugar intake before travel will minimise the likelihood of a sugar crash and make the journey more enjoyable for all passengers.

6 Indoor Activities to Keep Children Entertained When It’s Cold Outside

The Beast from the East is set to hit the UK again in the coming weeks bringing cold temperatures, harsh winds and potentially even some snow with it. From tobogganing to snowball fights, a snow day can provide endless amounts of fun for children but more often than not, snow only hits the far corners of Cairngorms and the rest of the UK must just endure the cold weather. 

Even with all the thermals and Uniqlo HeatTech in the world, it can be challenging to get children outdoors when it’s chilly and dreary outside but there are plenty of fun activities to keep them busy, entertained and warm indoors!

Image credit Kelly Sikkema on Unsplash

1. Get Baking

Aside from being a joyous (and delicious) pastime, baking offers many benefits for children such as developing their motor skills, exposing them to new foods and flavours and allowing them to take pride in something they have created. 

There is no shortage of recipes out there and it’s up to you to pick what most appeals to your family but some of our favourite recipes include: 

  • Chocolate Courgette Cake - who doesn’t love chocolate cake? This recipe is great for using up leftover courgettes and is an easy way to sneak some extra veg into a child’s diet. Plus, this unusual veggie addition will help make your cake super moist!

  • Healthy Flapjacks - these are a great snack or breakfast option as they’re free from refined sugar and you can customise to include dried fruits or dark chocolate as you wish.

  • Air Fryer Cinnamon Swirls - The beauty of these is that the dough is made simply from yoghurt and flour so there’s minimal fuss and minimal ingredients but all of the yummy flavour you’d expect in a cinnamon swirl. And yes, you can also bake these in the oven if preferred! 

2. Do a scavenger hunt

Scavenger hunts indoors or outdoors (when weather permits) are a favourite pastime of Januarys’ Nanny of the Month, Iwona and they are such a wonderful way to keep children engaged and entertained. If doing a hunt indoors, simply place clues around the house for them to follow, with a prize waiting at the end. 

For younger children these clues can be simple, like “find something red in your bedroom”, while older kids may respond best to more complex clues or simple riddles like “I come in pairs, I'm easy to lose, I go between your feet and your shoes” (socks).

3. Arts & Crafts

Arts and crafts are always a great way to inspire a child’s creativity and imagination. You may already have some form of an art cupboard at home for your little ones to go wild with but if you’re lacking in ideas then here’s a couple of fun projects to get them started:

  • DIY Fridge Magnets - Grab some clay, some paint and a pack of magnets and fashion some funky designs to turn into fridge magnets for friends and family!

  • Blown Eggs - With Easter not far away, now is the perfect time for blowing and painting eggs. 

    • Use a sewing needle to prick a small hole in the top and bottom of an egg and blow the contents of the egg into a bowl until it’s hollow. 

    • Give the egg a rinse and a gentle dry before painting the shell with a design of your choice! These will keep for a while and make lovely Easter ornaments.

      Note: Parents may need to help children get these started as it can be tough getting the first little bit of egg out but once you have a flow, children can easily take over! 
      Top Tip: Keep the contents of the egg to use as scrambled eggs, omelette or the base for a yummy cake later in the day.

  • DIY chess board - Using a small wooden board and some clay, children can either replicate the pieces used in a traditional game of chess or make and paint unique playing pieces to look like family members or favourite characters instead.

4. Build a fort or an indoor campsite

The beauty of a fort is that there are no rules on how it should be constructed, it’s totally up to a child’s imagination.Children can make use of anything around the house such as pillows, sheets, chairs and blankets to create their fort and then fill it with their favourite books, soft toys and games. 

During weekends and school holidays, forts can also be turned into an indoor campsite by putting mattresses and torches inside so children can spend the night there or fall asleep with a movie and snacks.

Top tip: Turn out the lights and place a paper cup with holes in it over a torch to replicate the night sky on the ceiling!

5. Silent Disco

Dancing is a great way to help children get active and work off any excess energy while they’re stuck indoors but having a silent disco affords parents and nannies the opportunity for some peace and quiet. Get children to help setup the disco itself by making or putting up some decorations such as:

  • A coloured disco lamp

  • Streamers or leftover balloons from previous birthdays

  • Homemade paper chains

Once the room is set up, encourage children to put on a disco outfit and give them a device that can play music with a pair of comfortable headphones (set on a low decibel to protect their ears). Then it’s up to them to crack out their best moves!

6. Put on a show

Most adults will have fond memories either of being in a ‘show’ put on for our parents or enthusiastically watching shows performed by our kids. 

To really get childrens’ creative juices flowing, encourage children to turn their favourite book into a show by finding costumes from the fancy dress box or fashioning costumes as an additional craft project, picking out music and coming up with dance routines (if relevant) or making admissions tickets.

These ideas are just the start but hopefully they provide you with some inspiration for fun activities on cold and rainy days indoors that bring a smile to your childrens’ faces!

9 Things You Can Do To Celebrate Chanukah in London

Chanukah (sometimes spelt Hanukkah) is the Jewish eight-day festival that harks back to when the Maccabees defeated the Seleucids to reclaim their Holy Temple in Jerusalem in second century BCE. In celebration, the Maccabees tried to light the Temple’s menorah but found they only had enough oil to burn for one day but a miracle took place and the Menorah burned for eight days.

This miracle is commemorated among Jewish communities with a nightly menorah lighting, special prayers, celebratory events and fried foods including latkes and donuts known as “sufganiyot”.

This year Chanukah falls from Sunday 18th December until Monday 26th December and there’s plenty of activities you can get involved in over the eight day period to mark the festival.

Make your own dreidel

We are advocates for getting creative with your children to help stimulate their imagination, support learning and development and provide you with opportunities for quality time together. Making your own dreidels this Chanukah is the perfect way to help share the stories and messages of the festival in a fun and engaging way.

You can easily make a clay dreidel by simply cutting a cube shape from your clay so it has four flat faces around its side. Decide which side will be the top and which will be the bottom before gently rolling the bottom corners inwards to form a point on which to spin the dreidel.

Using a separate piece of clay, roll a thin sausage shape and fix it to the top of your dreidel with water before it dries. Once it’s dry, you can then paint and decorate it as you wish but remember to include the four characters on each side (pictured below) so you can play with it afterwards!

  • NUN - no coins taken

  • GIMEL - player takes all available coins

  • HEY - split the available coins between players

  • SHIN - all players put a coin in

You can also keep it as an ornament or memento from the festival but if you do choose to play a game of dreidel, we suggest using sweets, raisins or game counters to play with in place of coins.

Visit Trafalgar Square’s Menorah (throughout Chanukah)

Trafalgar Square will once again become home to a giant menorah this Chanukah with a new light being lit on each day of the festival. Tickets are not required but it’s definitely a sight to see if you’re travelling through Central London.

Attend the Menorah Lighting in Islington (Sunday 18th December)

Islington’s annual Menorah Lighting has grown to become the second-biggest public menorah lighting in the UK, bringing together Jewish and non-Jewish communities across London and beyond. People of all faiths are invited to witness the lighting and join in with Chanukah songs, listen to music played on a klezmer, enjoy latkes and doughnuts and even make your own candles with the Jewish Museum, so there’s plenty for the whole family to enjoy.

This year’s lighting will also be attended by football freestyler, Dan Magness, who will be performing his gravity defying football skills show to bring a bit of World Cup fever to the event ahead of this weekend’s final.

Find out more about the Menorah Lighting here.

Indulge in some of the best Chanukah donuts

Grodzinski’s is London’s oldest Kosher bakery and has got their donut offering down to a tee for Chanukah. While jam-filled donuts are traditional, you can also branch out and try other flavours including chocolate, caramel, nougat, custard and caramel!

Rinkoff’s Bakery is another reliable option for donuts during the festival period. Or, if you’re feeling particularly creative, you can also try your hand at making your own sufganiyot too with this simple kosher donut recipe.

Chanukah Events at JW3

Based on Finchley Road, JW3 is a one-of-a-kind Jewish community centre inspired by Jewish arts, culture, learning and life with a vision to build a vibrant, diverse, unified British-Jewish community.

Over the Chanukah period, JW3 is hosting a series of fun and unique events that families can get stuck into and enjoy.

Chanukah Funukah (Sunday 18th December)

This fun-filled event has a plethora of activities lined up over the course of the day, including chocolate gelt workshops, Maccabeat Dance Parties, doughnuts, face-painting, arts and crafts, and a special musical candle-lighting to welcome the festival.

More details can be found here but festivities begin from 11am and tickets are £5 for adults or £9 for children (under 2s free).

Chanukah Light Ups – (from 19th -22nd December)

Pop down to JW3 for the Light Up sessions which will include Chanukah arts and crafts followed by candle lighting at 4.30pm and festive fun featuring storytelling, music, and (of course) delicious donuts!

  • 19th December: Chanukah card-making led by the volunteers of JW3

  • 20th December: Singing and piano performance from Jewish Music Institute

  • 21th December: Storytelling and crafts with LGBTQ+ Families

  • 22nd December: Storytelling and crafts with PJ Library

These events are free and run from 4pm each day but you can find out more here.

Songs in the Key of Hanukkah (Wednesday 21st December)

In 2010, Erran Baron Cohen, along with an incredible array of collaborators, released an album of Chanukah songs for the 21st century. The album includes a mixture of original music and pieces inspired by traditional Chanukah songs, bringing in the klezmer and a variety of other genres to bring a new spin to the festival.

This Chanukah, Erran has assembled an astounding band to bring this album to life and celebrate by returning to the stage for one unmissable night.

This event runs from 8pm and tickets are £20 so may fall outside children’s bedtimes but more information can be found here.

For Adults

We know that every now and again it’s nice for the parents among us to leave our children under the watchful eye of a nanny or grandparent and enjoy some ‘grown-up time’, so here’s a couple of additional Chanukah activities for just that occasion.

Chutzpah! – Thursday 22nd December

This Chanukah, JW3 is launching a new cabaret night hosted by Guy Woolf and Emily Rose Simons. This will be the first in a series of regular cabaret events, featuring music, spoken word, comedy, live performances, and special open mic slots for those who have the chutzpah to just get up on stage!

This event starts at 8pm and tickets will be £10. To purchase or find out about future Chutzpah! events, click here.

Interfaith Chanukah Celebration with Nisa Nashim (Wednesday 21st December)

Nisa–Nashim is a national network which brings together women of multiple faiths, particularly  Jews and Muslims, to inspire and lead social change.

To mark Chanukah, JW3 is inviting members of all faiths to gather and share in a special communal candle-lighting and festive meal and explore how the common threads and themes among the different faiths can help unite us.

This event runs from 6.30pm and tickets are £8 each. More information can be found here.

Simple Homemade Gifts Your Children Can Make This Christmas

The countdown to Christmas is on, which means the Michael Bublé Christmas album is on shuffle, decorations are up and there’s only a few weeks until presents are unwrapped.

As parents, we are more than familiar with the joy of giving and the pleasure that comes with seeing our loved ones unwrap gifts. But for children, Christmas is so often about the excitement of receiving a gift that the joy of giving can get lost.

Encouraging children to make a homemade gift can act as a valuable opportunity to teach them both to take pride in their work and help them understand the satisfaction of giving a gift. An additional perk is that making a homemade gift provides hours of entertainment during the school holidays and a chance to let their creativity run free.

There are oh-so-many homemade gifts your child could create for Christmas (or even for birthdays and other celebrations in the New Year) but these are two of our favourites to make.

Homemade Bath Bombs

Whether or not your child has used a bath bomb before themselves, there is something wonderfully exciting about creating a colourful, science-based, “explosive” gift. Making this gift will really stimulate a child’s senses as they will be exposed to different colours, textures and scents as they go.

Not only is the finished product a beautiful present to give, but these also couldn’t be simpler to make.

Makes 4-6 | You will need:

  • 200g bicarbonate of soda

  • 100g citric acid

  • 50g cornflour

  • 4 tbsp coconut oil

  • ½ tsp essential oil, such as orange, lavender or peppermint

  • a few drops of liquid food colouring

  • (Optional) dried flowers to add into the bath bombs for decoration

Method:

1.     In a bowl, mix your cornflour, bicarbonate of soda and citric acid until well-combined. Then set aside.

2.     In a separate bowl, melt your coconut oil before mixing with the essential oil and food colouring. It’s important to ensure that these have been mixed thoroughly so the colours are vibrant and not patchy when you form the bath bomb.

3.     Slowly mix the oil mixture with the bicarb mixture a little at a time until fully combined. You’re looking for a texture that has enough moisture that it can be squashed together to form your bath bombs.

If needed, you can also add a little bit of water to give it more moisture, but you’ll need to work quickly when you add it in as water will make the bomb fizz.

If you’re adding in any dried flowers, you can also fold them into your mixture now

4.     It’s time to start moulding! You can either form a spherical bath bomb simply by compressing the mixture in between your hands to form a ball, or you can use a mould like a cookie cutter, an empty yoghurt pot or an egg carton to press the mixture into. Make sure to pack the mixture in tightly so it retains its shape and then allow it to set for 2-4 hrs.

5.     Once set, it’s ready to be packaged up as a gift! Cellophane bags tied with a ribbon or string work well as they keep out any moisture but you can also use a paper bag or simply wrap in decorative tissue paper if you’d prefer something a little more environmentally-friendly.

Top tip: You can also make multiple batches with different colours and either gift a mixed set or combine multiple colours in your mould to make a rainbow or ombre bath bomb.

Homemade Pen Pots

There is not a person in the world who wouldn’t make use out of or enjoy receiving a homemade pen pot as a gift from a child, so these are always a safe bet. The great news is that these are very straightforward to make and there’s no limit to what you can decorate them with, so children can be as creative as they want with these.

You will need:

  • Cardboard tubes – empty toilet roll tubes work particularly well but you can also use empty kitchen roll or wrapping paper tubes cut to size as well.

  • Sheet of cardboard for the base

  • PVA glue or a glue gun

  • Anything you’d like to use for decoration. Some examples include: stickers, glitter, coloured paper, magazine or photo cut-outs, felt tip pens or dried flowers.

Method:

1.     Lay your sheet of base card flat and arrange your tubes on top in the way you’d like your pen pot to be set up. Once you’re happy with the position, draw around the edge of each tube so you have a line to act as a guide for the glue.

2.     Using the PVA or glue gun, line the outlines with glue and then press the tubes back into place before setting aside to dry.

Top tip: you can make a series of small incisions around one end of each tube which, when pushed outwards, will act as a flat base to help adhere the tubes to the cardboard. For extra stability, you could also cover the whole structure in papier-mâché once you’re happy with the positioning, but this will need to dry overnight before decorating.

3.     It’s time to decorate! It’s really up to you how you want to do this but here’s some ideas for inspiration…

  • Monsters: Paint each tube in one of your favourite colours, stick on a pair of googly eyes and draw a menacing smile and you have yourself a ‘monster pen pot’.

  • The Castle: Using a piece of card, cut out a series of small rectangles and glue them to the top edges of each tube. Once dried, paint everything grey and then draw on a door and archers windows to create a pen pot that looks like a castle. You can also paint the castle another colour if there’s one you prefer!

  • Christmas Pen Pot: It’s up to you which Christmas characters you want to create but you could paint one tube brown and fix on a red pom pom nose, googly eyes and a couple of small sticks or cut out paper as antlers to make a Rudolph. One tube is painted red with a flesh-coloured circle to act as a face and make Santa. Cotton wool can also be added to make a beard and the fluff on his suit and hat.

  • Unicorn: Choose a base colour for the tubes and paint them, either draw on eyes or fix on a pair of (you guessed it) googly eyes. Cut out a small triangle and add some glitter to make a horn before glueing that and a few pieces of wool or ribbon in your favourite colours to the top section of the tube to form a mane.

11 Festive Activities For Families in London This Winter

Halloween has been and gone which means we’re officially on the lookout for the John Lewis ad and starting to bring boxes of tinsel and lights down from the attic. 

These two things alone are enough to get us in a festive spirit but if you’re in need of some extra inspiration to help get everyone geared up for Christmas then we’ve lined up eleven of London’s best activities for families over the coming weeks.

From 8th November: Covent Garden at Christmas

From the morning of November 8th, Covent Garden’s christmas lights will be switched on and the iconic 60ft tall Christmas tree will make a comeback. In the lead-up to Christmas, families can enjoy an array of festive trees expertly decorated by Covent Garden’s horticultural team in the Wonder Wood, the Winter Warmer Festival and Christmas markets to mark the season. Covent Garden will also have a traditionally-decorated sleigh in the main square for the first time, bringing that extra touch of magic and endless photo opportunities.  Find out more here.

From 9th November: Regent Street Christmas Lights

From November 9th, the famous ‘Spirit of Christmas’ scheme will return to Regent Street. These lights are truly an iconic part of London at Christmas and are definitely not to be missed. We know that little legs can get tired walking for extended periods so if you don’t fancy seeing the lights on foot, there are also a number of festive open top bus tours that pass by some of London’s famous landmarks and cover some of the city’s most impressive Christmas lights.

10th November: Daylesford’s Christmas Preview

In the lead-up to Christmas, Daylesford will be hosting a series of festive events at their London farmshops. One that particularly caught our eye is their Christmas Preview in Notting Hill. While mulled wine, prosecco, food tastings and in-store discounts appeal to parents, there will also be the opportunity for children to meet real-life reindeer and really kick off the festive season. Find out more here.

From 16th November: Skating at Somerset House

This month, the courtyard at Somerset House will once again be transformed into a magnificent ice rink complete with a show stopping 40ft Christmas tree. There will be skate school sessions for those aged 8 and above who are keen to learn as well as a dedicated kids’ skate club for ages 6 - 10 to skate in a safe, friendly environment under the supervision of Somerset House’s ice marshalls. 

There are, of course, regular sessions throughout the day as well which will have a much livelier atmosphere, including DJs, festive music and plenty of food and drinks on hand. 

Find out more and book tickets here.

From 18th November: Christmas at Kew

This winter, Christmas at Kew is returning for its tenth anniversary. Highlights include a music and water display at Kew’s iconic Palm House, immersive installations lining the trail and winter warmers of hot chocolate and mulled wine along the way so there’s plenty to be enjoyed by all ages. Find out more here.

From 18th November: Winter Wonderland

It’s hard to do a roundup of the best festive activities in London without mentioning Hyde Park’s Winter Wonderland. This iconic attraction has a huge range of activities including ice skating, live entertainment, traditional christmas markets, fairground rides and games so there’s something for everyone to enjoy. Food and drink are also in plentiful supply so you’ll never need to look too far for a mulled wine, hot chocolate or Bavarian-inspired snacks.

Tickets now need to be reserved in advance and will sell out fast so click here to book.

From 19th November: Pantomime

While repeatedly bellowing “oh no he isn’t” might not be a parent’s ideal way to spend a Saturday night, there is something joyous about watching our children enjoy the magic of a pantomime in the lead-up to Christmas. This winter there are a number of pantos to choose from in London including Goldilocks and the Three Bears, Mother Goose and Cinderella. One we have our eye on is Jack and the Beanstalk at the London Palladium which will include an appearance from comedy favourite, Dawn French.

Find out more and book tickets here.

From 26th November: The Magic of Christmas at ZSL London Zoo

A trip to the zoo is magical in itself but ZSL London zoo have some festive treats lined up in the lead-up to Christmas including: marshmallow toasting, a trip to the Polar post room to send your letter to Santa and a few guest appearances during feeding time from the big man himself. Find out more here

From 2nd December: Christmas at Kenwood House

From December, Christmas at Kenwood will return to Hampstead Heath with its iconic light trail and enchanting installations that run throughout the stunning grounds, captivating all that visit. Find out more and buy tickets here.

From 2nd December: Meet Santa at Alexandra Palace

Santa Claus is taking up residence at Alexandra Palace this December, meaning children can meet him in-person and really bring the magic of Christmas to life. Each child will receive a small gift and get the opportunity to have their photo taken with Santa in his festive grotto. We expect tickets will go fast so get in quickly.

From 3rd December: Carols at the Royal Albert Hall

The Royal Albert Hall has a jam-packed programme over December, from Christmas carolling to traditional concerts, jazz, drag, soul, classic ballet and so much more. A couple of family-friendly events that particularly stood out for us were Home Alone in Concert on December 10th and A Christmas Carol on December 11th but there’s plenty to choose from to bring the magic of Christmas alive for all ages. More info and tickets here.

From 6th December: The Nutcracker Ballet

For those who don’t already know the story of the Nutcracker, it centres around young Clara on a magical adventure in a wintry wonderland all danced to Tchaikovsky’s score. This ballet is such a classic and captivating experience for children and adults alike and is not one to be missed this Christmas. Find out more here.

Scarily-Good Halloween Recipes To Make With Children This October

There are so many advantages to getting children involved in the kitchen. First and foremost, it  gives you both the opportunity to spend some quality time together and strengthen your bond, regardless of whether you’re a parent or a nanny.

Baking is also a great way for children to produce something that they can take pride in and share with others. No matter what age you are and the complexity of what you’ve made, you feel a sense of achievement when you’ve created something from scratch that you can put your name on.

Now the weather has turned and Autumn is upon us, Halloween is just around the corner and the fun of Halloween extends well beyond trick-or-treating and fancy dress. It is the perfect time of year to don our pinafores and make some spooky yet delicious treats with our children. So here’s some of our favourite Halloween recipes to inspire you this month!

Skeleton Cookies

The beauty of this recipe is in its simplicity. Just about everyone has a gingerbread man cookie cutter lying in a drawer at home and when it comes to the décor, you can be as detailed or as minimal as you’d like, and the finished product still looks great!

Ingredients

You will need: 225g plain flour | ½ tsp salt | 2 tsp bicarb soda | 1 heaped tsp ground ginger | 50g unsalted butter | 100g muscovado sugar | 100g golden syrup | 1x tube white piping icing | 1x gingerbread man cookie cutter

Method

  1. Preheat your oven to 190°C/170°C fan and line a tray with baking paper.

  2. Heat the butter, sugar and syrup in a pan until dissolved. Stir continuously to avoid it burning.

  3. Allow the sugar mixture to cool slightly while you sieve the flour, salt, bicarb and ginger into a large bowl.

  4. Gently pour your sugar mixture into the dry ingredients to form a dough before chilling in the fridge for 30 minutes.

  5. Remove from the fridge and roll the dough on a floured surface to about ½ cm thickness before cutting out your skeleton (gingerbread men) shapes.

  6. Place your cookies onto the lined baking tray and bake for 13 minutes

  7. Remove the cookies from the oven and allow to cool on a wire rack before piping on your skeleton design. (If they aren’t cool enough when you decorate, the icing will just melt off!)

Top tip: If you don’t have a gingerbread man shape available, you can use the top of a glass instead to cut out circular cookies and pipe on a spiderweb design instead.

Graveyard Mousse

Ingredients

For the mousse: 150g dark chocolate (we’d suggest 70% so it’s not too bitter but if making for more mature taste palettes you can opt for a higher cocoa content) | 6 egg whites (the Two Chicks egg white cartons simplify this) | 2 tbsp golden caster sugar

To assemble: 1x pack of your favourite chocolate biscuits | 1x pack of gummy worms | 6x malted milk biscuits | 1x black icing pen

Method

  1. Slowly melt the chocolate in the microwave or bain-marie in a heat-proof bowl. If opting for the microwave, we suggest heating in 30-second bursts and stirring in between so the chocolate doesn’t burn.

  2. Set aside and, in a separate bowl, whisk your egg whites to soft peaks.

  3. Add the sugar and whisk again until the mixture forms stiff peaks.

  4. Working quickly so the chocolate doesn’t harden, fold in your whisked eggs into the chocolate until thoroughly combined.

  5. Put the mixture into the fridge to chill while you crush your chocolate biscuits up into fine crumbs. Once this is complete, you’re ready for assembly.

  6. Grab your mousse mixture and put a spoonful into the bottom of 4-6 glasses. Then layer some of your crushed biscuits over the top.

  7. Alternating between mousse and biscuit, repeat this process until the glass is almost full before adding your gummy worm(s) on top.

  8. Grab your malted milk biscuit and icing pen to make an edible headstone. You can simply write ‘R.I.P’ or get creative and draw bats and skeletons.

  9. Once complete, slot your biscuit headstone into the top of the mousse and sprinkle the top of the glass with one final dusting of biscuit for an earthy effect.

  10. Chill in the fridge for 2-3 hours before serving.

Top tip: For children (or parents) who feel less confident in the kitchen, a simple hack is to swap the homemade chocolate mousse out for something like chocolate Angel Delight as it’s easy to make and can be portioned just as easily to form these fun desserts.

Pumpkin Cake

Lockdown banana breads are a thing of the past. This recipe is a scrumptious autumnal treat and a great way to use up leftover pumpkin pieces post-halloween.

Ingredients:

Cake: 300g self-raising flour | 300g light muscovado sugar | 3 tsps mixed spice (or a combination of nutmeg, ginger, cinnamon & ground allspice if you don’t have) | 4 medium eggs | 200g softened butter | 1 orange (zest & juice) | 500g pumpkin

Frosting: 200g mascarpone or cream cheese | 85g softened butter | 100g icing sugar | 1 orange (zest & juice) | 50g pecan nuts

Method

  1. Preheat your oven to 180°C/fan 160°C and grease and line a 30 x 20cm baking tin with baking parchment.

  2. Sift the flour, sugar, spices, bicarb and salt into a large bowl and stir to combine.

  3. Beat the eggs into the melted butter before stirrin in the zest and juice of 1 orange.

  4. Gently fold the egg mixture into the dry ingredients until thoroughly combined.

  5. Grate your pumpkin and stir into the cake batter before pouring into the lined tin and baking for 30 minutes.

  6. While your cake is in the oven, you can begin making the frosting. Cream together the soft cheese, butter, icing sugar, the second orange zest and 1 tsp of its juice until smooth. Keep in the fridge to chill until you’re ready to frost.

  7. When the cake has baked, allow it to cool for 5 minutes before gently pricking and drizzling with the remaining orange juice.

  8. Once the cake has cooled completely, you’re ready to frost - you can pipe this on or spoon and smooth with a palette knife before decorating with the chopped pecan nuts.

Top tip: If this is a recipe you fall in love with, you can make it year-round by substituting the pumpkin for a butternut squash.

5 Tips To Help Everyone Get Back Into The Swing Of School

After 6 weeks of summer bliss, the return to school is not one that’s eagerly anticipated by most. While some children look forward to being reunited with friends and classmates on a daily basis, the start of a new term is not without its challenges, like the return of homework, exams and long days. 

The start of a new school year also brings its share of stresses for parents. Whether you’re a new parent or one who’s been through the back-to-school process with multiple children, there’s all manner of things to wrap your head around like busy extra-curricular or social calendars, ferrying children to and from school and helping your child manage their workload.

All in all, the return to school can be tough on all members of the family but with these tips you can help make everyone’s lives that little bit easier and get the term off to a great start.

Children Studying
  1. Put routines in place

From brushing teeth and making breakfast to completing homework after school and winding down for bed, having a routine in place is really beneficial for all family members. Daily schedules can be very fluid and stressful so having a routine provides structure and constants throughout each day so the household naturally becomes a calmer environment to live and study in. 

Set routines also allow children’s body clocks to adapt, which sets them up for a better night’s sleep and also ensures they’re eating at regular intervals, having regular bowel movements and have established clear windows of “down time” during the day for play. 

2. Avoid blue light

We live in a world where a device is never far away but exposure to blue light before bed is shown to inhibit the production of melatonin (the hormone which makes us feel drowsy), so device use before bed only makes it that much harder for children to switch off and get to sleep. 

Among older children in particular, access to phones means there’s often the temptation to stay up late on social media or conversing with friends. Where possible, we recommend limiting phone use in the hour before bedtime to ensure children get a good night’s sleep and are well-rested before school the following day.

3. Ensure meals are balanced

Some parents have fussy eaters or find themselves short on time when school and work gets busy after the holidays meaning it can be easy to opt for the likes of a quick ready meal. While that’s fine on occasion, having a more nutritionally rich and balanced diet will help to restore your child’s energy so they don’t become fatigued after long days at school. Studies also suggest that children with good nutrition can actually benefit from better performance in school.

To help support a healthy diet and make less work for yourself during the week, it can be worth spending a bit of time over the weekend prepping some meals in tupperware containers that can then be easily reheated. You can also get your children involved as food preparation can help spark their interest in trying new foods and allows time for you to bond with one another. 
Breakfast is the most important meal of the day and one of our favourite recipes is waffles or pancakes, not least because there’s not a child out there that wouldn’t love pancakes or waffles for breakfast!

We particularly love these as they can be made in bulk and easily stored in the fridge or freezer prior to consumption. Whichever you opt for, the recipe is the same, it just depends on whether you have access to a waffle maker or would rather just use a pan. 

When you’re ready to eat them, simply pop your pancake or waffle into the toaster and serve with a spoonful of greek yoghurt and your favourite fruit for a balanced breakfast. 

Top tip: you can also add a mashed banana to the batter to up the fruit intake and give your pancakes or waffles some naturally added sweetness.

breakfast waffles

4. Support with studies

Starting a new school year means children can find themselves overwhelmed with workload or struggling to wrap their head around new subjects or topics they’ve not approached before. 

In these circumstances, engaging a tutor can help to identify the specific areas for development and provide your child with focused support to help them learn. As with daily routines, having set time with a tutor also provides a controlled environment and structured window in the day to work on homework with the assistance of a tutor to help guide them through the areas they find challenging.

5. Sometimes parents need support too…

While our children are our focus, it’s important to acknowledge that parents sometimes need some extra support during the busy back-to-school period too, and that’s where engaging a nanny can come in handy. 

When a busy work schedule and a child’s school calendar pick back up simultaneously, even something as “small” as school pick-ups and drop-offs can present a conundrum. Having the support of a nanny during this time (and throughout the academic year) helps alleviate some of the pressure during otherwise busy periods. 

We always encourage families to be as communicative as possible so both parties are clear on what’s expected from a nanny but there’s no reason you can’t discuss an existing or prospective nanny taking on the responsibility of school runs, supporting with meal preparation or overseeing homework to help keep things running smoothly.
We are on hand to help you identify prospective nannies and have laid out some interview tips when you come to shortlisting the right person for your family.

12 of the Best Bedtime Stories From Which Your Children Will Enjoy and Learn

Whether you devoured an Enid Blyton mystery or giggled your way through The Very Hungry Caterpillar, when you think back to your childhood, the chances are you have fond memories of reading before bed with a parent.

Our lives today can be so fast paced that we fear missing out on our own children’s best years. So actively setting aside time to read a bedtime story is a fantastic way to make sure you have regular opportunities to spend quality time together and make lasting memories.

But outside of this, reading bedtime stories can actually have so many positive impacts on your child’s learning and development. Regardless of whether they’re 2 or 12!

Father Daughter Bedtime Story

So, what are the benefits of reading bedtime stories?

It helps provide structure to the day

Bedtimes can be a challenging time in any parent’s day. We’ve all experienced a child who claims not to be tired but you know deep down they are well beyond the point of exhaustion, and getting them into bed is no easy feat.

Reading stories each night is a great tool as it provides somewhat of a daily routine (which we know is hugely beneficial for children) and acts as a subtle indicator that it’s almost time for bed without explicitly saying those words.

Helps children to unwind and settle

In the 21st century, so much of our day is dominated by screen time. And that goes for our children too.

Exposure to screens (specifically the blue light they give off) inhibits the melatonin hormone which is what makes us sleepy. So reading a physical book before bed will provide crucial time away from a screen and help reduce cortisol levels to create a calm environment in which your child can fall asleep. This can also help improve sleep quality which sets you both up for a better day the next day!

Helps develop their sense of imagination

Bedtime stories can bring a sense of escapism and allow your child’s imagination to run wild. This can benefit them in their day-to-day life as your child can then bring some of their creativity and imagination into playtime, whether playing on their own or with others.

Reading before bedtime also creates an opportunity to enhance your child’s thirst for knowledge, which is never a bad thing!

Teaches valuable life lessons

Many children’s stories include a moral, such as the importance of friendship, laughing at your mistakes or kindness to others. These teachings are presented through stories in a subtle and engaging way so children can learn from them and take these practices into everyday scenarios.

Improves speech development

If your child is in the very early stages of their life and hasn’t yet learnt to speak, reading books to them can be hugely beneficial to their speech development as they will be able to passively absorb language and begin to understand certain sounds or words.

For children who are slightly older and have developed some basic language, reading aloud with them before bed can help advance their vocabulary and improve their speech. Reading aloud is something that’s not uncommon in schools and can be a daunting task if they’re not confident in doing so, so practising with a parent at home can help build up that skill.

Advances learning at all ages

Even if your child is very young, reading bedtime stories can still have a positive impact on their learning and development. As children’s books are often very visual, they allow your child to learn new colours and shapes in a fun and engaging way.

A good exercise for older children is to encourage them to read aloud but also to mark or jot down any words they are not familiar with so you can go back and look up the definitions afterwards. This gives them the opportunity to actively advance their vocabulary and makes learning more interactive.

12 Bedtime Reads We Love

Books For Under 5s

For children aged 5 and under:

  1. Little People Big Dreams, Maria Isabel Sanchez Vergara - a wonderful way to introduce role models of today in an engaging and age-appropriate way

  2. The Little Elephant That Never Wants To Fall Asleep, Carl-Johan Forssen Ehrlin - a tried and tested, parent-approved book with techniques to reclaim bedtime and provide a sweet and tender end to each day.

  3. The Tiger Who Came To Tea, Judith Kerr - the fun tale of a tiger who mysteriously turns up at the dinner table. One that will be read on repeat!

  4. Lost and Found, Oliver Jeffers - an understated story of friendship and loneliness with a strong moral.

Books For Aged 5-8

For children aged 5-8:

  1. Peter Pan - a timeless classic that will ignite a sense of adventure in those that read it.

  2. Charlotte’s Web, E.B. White - An undisputed children’s classic with a wonderful moral.

  3. The Famous Five books - an engaging mystery series bound to spark your child’s imagination. The book is also peppered with strong morals and characters that break social boundaries.

  4. A Bedtime Full of Stories: 50 Folktales and Legends from Around the World, Angela McAllister - These folk tales and legends are the perfect length for a bedtime story and reading aloud. Each is set in a different place and will transport children around the world as well as into fantasy lands.

Books Aged 9+

For children aged 9+:

  1. The Harry Potter series, JK Rowling - one of the most iconic book series of the twentieth century, offering a tantalising glimpse of the endlessly spellbinding wizarding world.

  2. The Bad Beginning: A Series of Unfortunate Events, Lemony Snicket - The first of a 13-part series of books that tells the adventures of three intelligent, orphaned siblings, Violet, Klaus and Sunny Baudelaire.

  3. Goodnight Mister Tom, Michelle Magorian - The powerful story of deprived evacuee William Beech and his slow-burning friendship with the cantankerous Tom Oakley.

  4. His Dark Materials: The Northern Lights, Philip Pullman - Set in an alternate universe of species-shifting daemons, magical artefacts and forbidden knowledge, Northern Lights is the first volume of Pullman’s iconic fantasy saga.

These are just some of our favourite reads but don’t feel limited to these. Other parents, teachers or friends may have recommendations on books they and their children have loved and you may have books in mind yourself. No matter which book you opt for, there are so many positives that come from reading bedtime stories together and if you can get your child into reading when they’re young, it’s more likely to develop a passion and something they continue in their adult life.

12 TIPS TO HELP PROCESS THE GRIEF OF LOSING A NANNY

When a nanny has been part of a family’s life for a long period, or even if it’s been short but they’ve formed a close bond, it can be particularly difficult to say goodbyes and start afresh with someone new. This can be felt by nannies, parents and children alike.

Unless you are Jacob Rees-Mogg, whose nanny has been with the family for two generations, nannies will eventually move on. We know farewells are usually the worst part of having or being a nanny, so we’re sharing our advice on how to handle this change and help make the transition easy for all involved.

If you’ve formed a close bond, it feels comparable going through a breakup. As with any breakup, it’s important to process this grief and big life change properly to understand the reason it has come to its natural end so everyone involved can get the closure they need.

Helping Children to Process the Change

Ultimately, the children have to come first at this time as, regardless of their age, they will be the ones most likely to be affected and feel the effects long-term. But there’s simple things you can do to help with the transition:

  1. If possible, arrange for your nanny’s end date to fall outside of term time so it’s less disruptive to your child’s routine. For many families, the summer months and half terms also tend to be busier with holidays, play time and socialising, which will help draw children’s attention away from the absence of a loved nanny and ensure an otherwise difficult time is still full of positive and happy memories.

  2. Sit down with your child and your nanny to explain that he/she is departing. Explain that the departure is not anyone’s fault and use this opportunity to help give some context or rationalise why the nanny is leaving. Painting a picture of what’s to come may also help a child to rationalise the change. Some examples are:

  • Pregnancy - [Nanny’s name] is going to have a baby, which means he/she needs to look after that baby now you’re a bit more grown up.

  • Travel - [Nanny’s name] is going on an exciting adventure to see the world. 

  • Natural end of family’s need for a nanny - You’re all grown up now and there’s another little boy/girl that needs [Nanny’s name]’s help more than we do.

Let your child ask questions to you and the nanny to help them process what’s going on and get the answers and closure they need. Be as honest as you can - your child’s questions will act as a guide for the kinds of information they’re capable of handling.

If it’s realistic, you could also suggest that you still see / meet up with the nanny in the future as  this can provide children with a positive outlook so the departure feels less significant or permanent. However, this is a discussion to first have with your nanny to understand whether that is feasible and something that is wanted by both parties so no false promises are made.

3. Encourage your child to draw or make a farewell card as this can help them to process what’s happening, and even express emotions that they may otherwise struggle to verbalise. 

4. Empathise with your child’s emotions - some children may display signs of anger as a way of dealing with this, some may shed tears, others may be dismissive or uncharacteristically quiet. Regardless of how your child reacts, it’s important to keep communicating and offer affection and counsel to help them with this grieving process.

5. Facilitate a smooth transition to the next caregiver. If possible, try to arrange meetings with the new nanny ahead of the current one departing. This will help establish the new caregiver as a trusted and familiar face, or even as a ‘friend’ of the current nanny, so they feel a greater sense of acceptance when the time comes for the new nanny to join your family.

Something as simple as introducing the new nanny during a trip to the park could be an organic way to do this but ensure it’s something both the existing and new nanny are happy to facilitate ahead of time. 

6. Setup time to train the new nanny - If possible, also set some time for the current nanny to train a new caregiver. They may wish to pass on tips that will help them relate to your child, or offer guidance on how your family likes to work so they can settle in and adopt some of the previous nanny’s skills or qualities that resonate well with your family. 

For Parents:

  1. Whether you’ve made the decision you no longer need the help of a nanny, or your nanny has chosen to depart, it’s important to keep communication direct and open throughout the transitional period. This will provide a comfortable environment for all parties to discuss the departure and ways of supporting the child through this time.

  2. Access your baggage by talking to your partner, friends, a professional or anyone else you trust about your nanny’s role in your family. Unresolved feelings may resurface in the form of unrealistic expectations for a new nanny, or a disruptive transition.

  3. Remain open to the possibility of finding something greater or new. Your nanny may feel irreplaceable but try to see this transitional period as an opportunity to find someone with a different skill set that complements what your current nanny has already taught your child(ren). This can help further shape your child’s learning and development. For example, if the nanny departing was great at organising craft activities, this could be an opportunity to explore hiring a nanny that is very active and can expose your children to new passions or sports.

For Nannies:

  1. If possible, stay in contact - send postcards, photos or exchange hand-made cards and letters. From afar this will continue to inspire creativity in the child and help with development but also allows both you, the child and the family to maintain a close bond. As before, this is something that will need to be discussed and agreed with the family in advance to understand whether it’s something feasible and wanted by all parties.

  2. Create a memento together. This is a great excuse to do something creative together and make a joint memento like a friendship bracelet, ornament or even just drawings for one another. Both you and the child(ren) can then keep these after your departure as a reminder of your time together.

  3. If moving on to a new family, avoid comparing it to your previous experience. Remember all families work differently and you may set yourself up for disappointment if you go in expecting to replace a past experience. 

While parting ways may feel like a terrible moment in a family’s history, the reality is that everyone, children in particular, will learn to adapt to the change really quickly and can still move on with positive experiences. 

BEST BBQ RECIPES TO MAKE WITH YOUR KIDS THIS SUMMER

It’s official, the sun has finally come out and barbecue season is upon us! With the Jubilee long-weekend coming up and the return of group gatherings and celebrations this summer, we’re sharing some of our favourite BBQ recipes that you can make with your children.

  1. Layered Rainbow Salad 

This is one of our favourite summer salads and always a crowd-pleaser. The vibrant colours make it that much more appealing for children, and it’s a recipe you can prep a day or two in advance, so it’s ready to go on the day of your BBQ.

Ingredients:

  • ¾ head iceberg lettuce outer leaves and core removed

  • 1 cup frozen peas thawed

  • 4 hard boiled eggs chopped

  • ¾ cup chopped spring onions

  • 1 ½ cup cherry tomatoes diced bite size pieces

  • 1 cup pancetta cooked crisp

  • 1 cup shredded cheddar cheese

  • 1 cup mayonnaise

  • 1 cup greek yoghurt

  • 2 tablespoons granulated sugar

  • salt and pepper for sprinkling


Method:

  1. In a bowl, mix together the mayonnaise, yoghurt and sugar until thoroughly combined, and set aside. 

  2. Chop the lettuce and place in the bottom of a large, clear bowl or trifle dish with a sprinkling of salt and pepper.

  3. Next, layer on the: frozen peas, boiled eggs, spring onions, cherry tomatoes, pancetta and finally the cheese, until you have rainbow layers visible through the bowl. Keep some of the cheese and bacon aside to garnish at the end.

  4. Grab your mayo / yoghurt mixture and spread across the top layer of the salad until it reaches the edges of the bowl. 

  5. Sprinkle the top with the remaining cheese and bacon before covering it with cling film to seal.

  6. This should ideally sit in the fridge for a minimum of 4 hours (or up to 2 days) before serving.

2. Scrummy Summer BBQ Skewers (Makes 8-12)

Tip: As a vegetarian option, swap out meats for halloumi cheese. For vegans, we also recommend adding marinated tempeh or firm tofu as a delicious alternative.

This recipe could not be more simple, which is one of the things we love about it. You can also prep these the day before, and can add or remove veggies to suit your taste.

Ingredients:

  • 1 punnet cherry tomatoes

  • 2 courgettes

  • 1 aubergine

  • 1 box button mushrooms

  • 500g of diced chicken breast or beef cubes (or halloumi / tempeh / firm tofu if using)

  • 1 cup red onions, diced into large chunks

  • Pack of wooden BBQ skewers

Method:

  1. First soak the wooden kebab skewers in some water for 5-10 minutes to help prevent them from burning on the BBQ.

  2. While these are soaking, slice all your vegetables, and protein (meat, halloumi or tempeh/tofu) into large cubes. If using, the tomatoes can be kept whole.

  3. Slowly thread the veggies and protein onto your skewer - we recommend doing so in an alternating pattern so you get a rainbow skewer but you can easily adapt this to your personal taste.

Safety Tip: Place your veggies or meat on a chopping board and pierce them from the top to avoid pricking yourself with the sharper end of the skewer.

4. Pass on to an adult to BBQ until lightly charred.

Our final recipe is packed full of fresh, exotic flavours and is such a delicious twist on a classic recipe. 

3. Tropical Sunshine Trifle Top tip: You can either make this in a large trifle dish, or make 6-8 individual portions using tumblers.

Ingredients:

  • 6 sponge ‘lady fingers’ or 175g sliced sponge cake 

  • 2 cups of liquid mango jelly

  • 2 cups of vanilla custard

  • 1 cup sliced mango

  • 1 cup tinned pineapple (in syrup)

  • 3 tbsp pineapple syrup from tinned pineapple (or orange juice if preferred)

  • 2 cups double cream

  • Garnish optional - see suggestions at the bottom of the method!

Method:

  1. Line the bottom of the trifle bowl or glasses with the sponge fingers or cake in a nice even layer. Drizzle over the pineapple juice and let it soak in for 5 minutes.

  2. Cover the sponge with the sliced mango and tinned pineapple. Slowly and gently pour over ⅓ of the liquid jelly and put it into the fridge to allow the fruit to set at the base of the bowl.

  3. Once set, pour over the remaining jelly mixture and allow it to set completely before adding a layer of the vanilla custard.

  4. Finally, whip the double cream until it forms stiff peaks before spooning or piping onto the trifle

  5. To garnish, we love to use some of the pairings below but let your creativity run wild and decorate how you wish.


Example garnishes:

  • Sliced orange with a grating of lime zest

  • Sliced almonds with a grating of orange zest

  • White chocolate shavings and crushed meringue

  • Passion fruit and sprigs of mint

AFFORDABLE & FAMILY-FRIENDLY TRAVEL DESTINATIONS NOW THE WORLD'S OPENING BACK UP

With restrictions officially having lifted here in the UK, and the rest of Europe gradually following suit and opening back up, we finally have the flexibility to start thinking about travelling overseas for half-terms, long-weekends and the summer holidays! 

Travelling with families can be expensive, and it’s often hard to pinpoint the best locations to suit children of varying ages as well as you. So we’ve done some of the work for you and rounded up a handful of our favourite, affordable destinations to keep your family happy and entertained, and allow you some much needed ‘me time’!

BEST FOR YOUNG FAMILIES: Paris, France

Paris is a great location for families with young children, not least because of how close it is. 

While flying only takes an hour and is super easy, we’d definitely recommend taking the Eurostar across, as the journey is still fast but it brings you right into the city, so there’s no need for a hire car or expensive taxis from an airport. 

Equally, driving has its perks as you could travel overnight or first thing in the morning to allow your kids to sleep for the bulk of the journey but parking in Paris does not come cheap and can set you back by around 40EUR a day.

Once you’re there, we recommend staying in the (aptly named) Mama Shelter. It’s a beautiful, family-friendly hotel and room rates are very reasonable. They have hotels to both the East and West of Paris, and also offer free parking if you were to drive. 

Should you want to slip away for a quiet dinner and some ‘grown up time’, they also have babysitting and activities for kids available.

  • Sea Life Centre

  • Picnic at the Eiffel Tower

  • Day trip to Disneyland

  • Day trip to Versailles

  • Explore the Louvre

  • Sit and watch the world go by with pastries on the Seine

You can find out more about the latest travel, Covid and entry requirements for Paris here.

BEST FOR TEENS: Marrakech, Morocco

Marrakech is the perfect place to visit if you’re heading overseas with older children and teens. The flight is only 3 hours 40 minutes and once you arrive, you’re pretty much guaranteed warm weather. 

Couple that with souks, camel riding and quad biking in the desert all nearby, and you’re onto a winner - a destination that will be truly memorable and with no shortage of activities. 

If you’re after something a little more peaceful and remote, then Hotel Riu Tikida Palmeraie is a great location. However, if you’re happy to be in the hub and the buzz of the city then somewhere like Riad Jona is both affordable, beautiful and gives you some real atmosphere. It’s also walking-distance from the Menara should you want to venture into the square in the evenings. 

Many Riads and hotels offer hammam spa experiences and many can also arrange for henna artists to come to your accommodation, so your kids are well entertained while you enjoy a little adult R&R time.

You can find out more about the latest travel, Covid and entry requirements for Marrakech here.

BEST FOR SOME ME-TIME: Sani Resort, Halkidiki, Greece

Based in Halkidiki, Greece, Sani Resort is surrounded by crystal clear waters and sandy beaches, and it is hugely popular among families, not least because of the multitude of unique activities it has on offer. 

For children aged 4 months to 3 years, there’s a creche on-site, so you can enjoy ‘me time’ as needed. There’s also a kids’ club for children under 12, and a teen’s club for ages 12-17, each with fun classes and activities available so everyone can keep plenty busy and make the most of their trip.

The hotel complex is made up of five hotels, including Porto Sani, Sani Beach and Sani Club,  with some even offering a free stay for 2 children up to 12 years old!

You can find out more about the latest travel, Covid and entry requirements for Greece here.

BEST FOR SHORT WEEKENDS: 

For a shorter trip or long weekend, we also love:

Salzburg, Austria

This destination may sound a bit unexpected but in the Spring / Summer, Salzburg is wonderful for a short break. Visit the beautiful Mirabell Gardens, soak up some history at the Hebrun Castle and Salzburg Cathedral, and hark back to your youth on the Sound of Music tour.

You can find out more about the latest travel, Covid and entry requirements for Austria here.

Amsterdam, The Netherlands

Getting to Amsterdam is a mere 45 minute flight away from London, so a great and easy destination for a mini break. Wander along the canals with a stroopwafel in hand, rent a bicycle for the day and head out to Marken, visit the tulip gardens, galleries and museums or have a picnic in Vondelpark. Come winter, there’s also beautiful Christmas markets, so there’s plenty to fill a weekend away year-round! 

You can find out more about the latest travel, Covid and entry requirements for The Netherlands here.

Rome, Italy

You don’t need us to tell you that Rome is packed full of history and is a wonderful destination for families - the cuisine is pretty family-friendly and the city is awash with plenty to keep the imagination firing and engaged. From exploring the Colosseum and Roman Forum, to bike riding in Villa Borghese and indulging in gelatos in Piazza Navona, there’s so much to see and do in this city. A word to the wise - summer months can get too hot so we’d recommend going between April - June or September - October when it’s a little cooler.  

You can find out more about the latest travel, Covid and entry requirements for Rome here.

The real question is, with so many possibilities now back open, which destination will you go to first?

WHY 2022 IS THE YEAR YOU SHOULD HIRE A MALE NANNY

If you were a Friends fan back in the nineties and early noughties, we’re sure you’re familiar with the episode where Ross and Rachel hire a male nanny, or ‘manny’. As such, you’ll also be familiar with the scene where Ross famously says ‘a man wanting to be a nanny is weird, it’s like a woman wanting to be a…’ and then finds himself stumped as to what the end of that sentence is. 

If you’re unsure of what we’re talking about, there’s a clip here but, to this day we’re still trying to think of something to finish Ross’s sentence off. It’s probably because there’s nothing women can’t do but it has got us questioning why there was, and still remains to be, such a stigma against men wanting to be nannies.

The ‘obvious’ answer might be that nannying has typically been seen as a female role, as an extension of old-fashioned gender roles wherein men were characterised as breadwinners and protectors, while a woman’s role was in the home, caring for children. But attitudes and gender roles have shifted drastically since Friends first aired, and mannies have come a long way too. 

Consider the rise in men taking paternity leave - between 2017 - 2018, over 235,000 men in the UK took up paternity leave so they could play a more active role in raising a family. So, by that measure, why would it be unusual that more males find satisfaction in childcare and caring for a family, and thus want to explore nannying?

According to a gender bias report in the US, 98% of nannies are female and only 2% are male. An article by The Sun also estimates that that figure is the same in the UK, which is staggering as there can be so many perks to hiring a male nanny:

  • For single-parent families, having a positive male role model or ‘father figure’ around can be a plus, and for dual-parent families, a ‘manny’ can simply act as a trusted and supportive older brother figure to play and interact with.

  • When it comes to play and organising activities, males are typically more physically active. Physical activity is always a welcome bonus to support health and wellbeing, but also helps to burn some of your childrens’ excess energy, so everyone can get a better night’s sleep!

  • Evolution has led men to adopt a naturally very protective quality, so it may also bring you comfort to know that your child (or children) has a protector of sorts to mind them during the day.

  • Having a male nanny in a female-dominated industry will help teach your child broader gender perceptions and set the foundations for understanding that a person can become anything they are passionate about, without boundaries set by gender.

Manny and Girl Painting

Things to consider before hiring a male nanny:

  • If you’re unsure of hiring a male nanny, first address what’s holding you back

    This could be addressed through conversation with a friend, a therapist or your partner but you should take a moment to consider where any hesitation comes from. Is it simply that the concept is still unfamiliar? Is there perhaps some unconscious bias acting as a barrier? Are you looking for certain attributes you’re worried a male nanny may not possess? Is there just one Manny in the who’s making you feel uncertain? 

    Equally, if your partner is also male and has reservations, it’s important to discuss this. Are they worried of another male / potentially paternal presence? Do they mesh well with the nanny too?

  • Reach out to other families who have had hired male nannies, as they’ll likely be able to speak to their experience, share any learnings and answer questions to ease any doubts you have.

  • If interviewing, ask what drew them to this profession. If you have any doubts in your mind, the answer to this question should quickly give you a steer on whether a male nanny, or that one in particular, is right for you and your family’s needs.

  • Write a list of key skills and attributes you’d like your nanny to have.

    Whether male or female, this can be a good way to help you overcome any hesitation in the event you shortlist a male nanny. If he has all the qualifications, skills and personality traits you’re looking for, and during an interview the dynamic works, then gender ought not to be an issue.

    Also be transparent about ways of working and your expectations so it’s clear for all parties whether the fit is mutually beneficial.

The main thing(s) to take away…

Across the UK there are many male nannies available and, in turn, a wide variety of skills, qualifications and attributes to choose from. Ultimately the nanny you select should be the person whose skillset and personality best aligns with your family’s beliefs, lifestyle and needs but let 2022 be the year that you take a moment to consider the untapped potential of male nannies.

THE BEST THINGS TO DO IN LONDON THIS FEBRUARY HALF TERM, WHATEVER THE WEATHER

If you take a moment to think back to when you were a child, you’ll remember half term as one of the things you looked forward to most during term time. The freedom from lessons, time to just chill out with a game or meet friends in town, or to get up to some kind of mischief in the garden - it was bliss. But as a parent, half term can be one of the most dreaded times in the calendar. Without the structure of a school schedule, you find yourself trying to conjure up activities that will keep your children happy, entertained and far away from covering the house in homemade slime. 

To save you the added stress of planning activities over the school break, we’ve rounded up some of London’s best offerings to keep your little ones busy over the February half-term; with both indoor and outdoor options to suit the (let’s face it) dreary British weather, and varying budgets!

INDOOR

Theatre - prices vary per show and seating area.

Head into the heart of the city and enjoy the experience and novelty of some of the best shows on London’s West End. There’s plenty to choose from but here’s some inspiration: The Lion King, Mousetrap, Cirque du Soleil, Matilda, Harry Potter Cursed Child.

Warner Bros Studio Tour - from £47.50

This one’s not quite in London but it’s not far outside the M25, and makes for a magical day out (pun intended). During and after half term, the studios’ Magical Mischief tour will be open, revealing the filmmaking trickery behind the Harry Potter film series and shining a spotlight on magical pranks and mishaps. During your visit, you can learn how your favourite mischievous moments from the films were brought to the screen in this exciting feature.

Word to the wise - studio tours sell out quickly, especially during school breaks so book sooner than later so you don’t miss out!

Science Museum - Free

From Helen Sharman’s iconic space suit to Amy Johnson’s marvellous Gipsy Moth aeroplane, the Science Museum tells the stories of the extraordinary human achievement and technological advances that have helped humanity overcome challenges throughout history. With lots of interactive exhibits to get stuck into, this museum makes for a full day out and is definitely better than a day of bingeing Netflix or PS4 games! 

At-home Cinema screening - Though if you are going to indulge in screen time at home , make it a little special but hosting an at home cinema experience. The kids can pick out their favourite snack or drinks in advance and, with the help of a projector, you can screen a brilliant film from the comfort of your home. Haven’t seen Encanto yet? We 10/10 recommend, though be ready to be humming the soundtrack a while after.

Natural History Museum - Free entry

The Natural History Museum is always a win as far as we’re concerned. 

If the permanent exhibitions alone don’t quite tickle your fancy, then we also recommend the Dinotours - a 45 minute tour with one of the NHM’s knowledgeable guides before the museum opens to the public. This gives you a chance to get up close and personal with all the main characters in the world-famous Dinosaurs gallery. (Children £20, Adults £30).

And for children over eight, go behind the scenes with NHM’s knowledgeable science educators for a look at the Museum's fascinating zoology collections preserved in spirit. (Tickets - £25)

Note: Events like their Dino-snore experience - staying overnight for a Night-At-The-Museum-Eqsue experience with breakfast included. This sleepover for kids aged 7 to 11 gives budding explorers the chance to discover the Museum after dark with added activities thrown in the mix. Great fun but they also sell out long in advance. Sadly they look to be full this half term but one to have on your radar for future!

Cinema Trip - from £5.99

Half term could be an opportunity for a Tom Holland overload. If you’ve not yet seen Spiderman: No Way Home, then that’s definitely worth a trip to the cinema. If you have then fear not, he has another film coming out - Uncharted (12). 

The storyline focuses on treasure hunter Nick Drake, a descendent of explorer Sir Francis Drake, searching for the fabled South American golden city, El Dorado. Oh, and as a bonus for the Mums, it also features Mark Wahlberg! 

Roller Disco (Family Session) - £10

This one will have your kids talking about it for a while after. Roller Nation’s ‘Family Jam’ sessions are for ages 5-14 (and parents) only, so you needn’t worry about show offs throwing your balance off. Skates are available to rent as part of your ticket price and food and drinks are available throughout, so all you have to do is enjoy the music and have fun!

OUTDOOR

Richmond Park Walk - totally free

Nothing beats some old-fashioned fresh air and a walk.

Hampton Court Palace & Maze - from £12.60

For a change of scenery, why not venture to Hampton Court Palace? Plenty to explore in the palace itself, as well as opportunities for some Henry VIII role play. And as an added bonus, entry to the Maze is included in a normal admission ticket. The Hampton Court Palace Maze is the UK's oldest surviving hedge maze and covers a third of an acre. It’s known for its many twists, turns and dead ends so you won’t be short on fun and adventure.

Go Ape - from £22

Unleash your adventurous side at Go Ape in Battersea, Alexandra Palace or  Cockfosters. Whether you are looking to climb high up the trees to tackle Treetop Challenge or zoom across the forest floor on the Forest Segway , this is the ultimate action-packed adventure to fill your half term. 

ZSL London Zoo - prices vary dependent on experience

There’s something magical about a trip to the zoo and seeing wild animals up close but you can also take that experience to the next level at ZSL London Zoo this half term with activities including:

  • Vets in Action is an award-winning role-playing experience for budding veterinarians to help experts examine, diagnose and carry out treatments on soft toys - from microchipping meerkats to ultrasounding pregnant sloths. Best for pre-school age.

  • Junior Keeper for a Day gives you the opportunity to get up close with some of the animals at ZSL London Zoo and get a taster of what life is like as a Zookeeper! (Age 11-15) £170.

  • Meerkat Experience - Go inside the meerkats' home and watch as they scamper around you on their search for food. This one is a 20 minute experience as part of your day out. (Age 5+) £54pp.

THE WORST NANNY EXPERIENCES & HOW TO AVOID THEM

If you’ve spent any time browsing online forums in the hunt for a nanny or host family, you’ll more than likely have also come across your share of horror stories and awkward tales from nannies the world over. While there are some truly shocking experiences people have faced, some of the trickiest scenarios can be avoided. 

In this post, we’re rounding up some of the less-favourable scenarios experienced by nannies on discussion platform, Reddit, and sharing our top tips on how best to navigate similar scenarios should you ever run into them.

1 -  “Laying Down The Law”

It’s not uncommon that families’ existing lifestyles and ways of working will feed into how parents want nannies to interact with their children, but this nanny details how a particular parent took that to a new level…

"I arrived to an 8 page set of house rules, laying out everything she had watched her sitters do on her nanny cams that she did not like and that were not allowed”. There were a few familiar and perfectly reasonable requests included, like “don't use cell phones while in our home” were on the list but the things that jumped out as red flags were things like “don't eat in front of our baby because it's unfair to her feelings” and “never take the baby into the bathroom with you because there were no cameras in there.”

The nanny in question was so offended by what the final rule insinuated that she never returned and was later told by her nanny agency that the mother had previously “sent 4 page emails on a weekly basis detailing and complaining about each sitter they had sent her up until [me]."


Our advice: For the benefit of both parties, it’s important to set out expectations early on - ideally at interview / hiring stage or in the first week of employment. This ensures nannies are aware of any particular lifestyle requirements, and can make an informed decision as to whether they’re able to support those needs before joining a family, and clear boundaries are established.

2 - ‘BURNT OUT WITH NO WAY OUT’

This nanny found herself in a particularly challenging situation where boundaries were overstepped and she found herself unable to commit to the family’s changing needs. As a consequence, her mental health was deprioritised and she was left feeling burnt out.

This nanny had been with the family for around 18 months and, with the mother expecting her third child imminently, was told regularly by the mother that she was “a part of [the] family, if you left us the kids would be crushed, we need you please never leave us”.

While that sounds like a positive relationship on the surface, the nanny notes that, on the flip side, she was regularly asked to “do things out of my comfort zone” like additional housework outside of contracted responsibilities, answer questions about her personal life, asked to stay late without increased remuneration, and expected to answer calls while off the clock. 

Alongside this role, the nanny was also studying but the parents asked her to take a semester off to be available for 40+ hours each week once the baby arrived as while in classes, she was limited to being able to work 36 hours a week. 

Eventually this nanny reached breaking point and she sought advice on how to resign respectfully, to retain a positive relationship with the family and obtain a good reference for any future work as, ultimately, she had done her job well. The only “issue” would have been her resignation as she felt the family would not take kindly to the timing, and may try to “manipulate” her into staying on.

Our advice: This one is particularly tricky…. First and foremost, at no point should a role, nannying or otherwise, jeopardize your mental health so if there are issues in place that are impacting this, it is important to communicate these to your employer. Discuss what’s causing you trouble and any solutions that you feel may help resolve the problem.

Using this nanny’s experience as an example, we would recommend having an open and honest conversation with a family early on about the evolution of your role if you feel your responsibilities have increased beyond what was contracted/agreed, as there may be opportunity to review priorities, or for increased pay to accommodate additional needs.

As far as resignation goes, ultimately employment works both ways - it is just as important that a family suits a nanny, as it is for a nanny to suit and meet the needs of a family. If at some point circumstances change, it is important to communicate this to the other party so an amicable agreement can be made on how best to move forward or part ways. In the case of this nanny, our suggestion would have been to explain to the family that prioritizing your education is important and was something you could juggle when you joined but that a new baby and increase in hours simply won’t be feasible. This gives the family the opportunity to explore reduction in hours or to accept your notice and begin the search for a replacement.

3 - “ALL INCLUSIVE EXPERIENCE”

Our third and final nanny found herself in a scenario where her employer had organised a family trip, including her. A working holiday doesn’t sound half bad, right? But this trip wasn’t quite what she had in mind…

 “I was under the impression I'd have my own hotel room or at least a separate room in the suite. NOPE! They got a room with two queen beds in it and expected me to have a bed with one of the kiddos and then one of the parents would share a bed with the other kid. Oh, and aside from paying my airfare etc... I wasn't paid, only given $200 of "spending money".

Our advice: Having a written work agreement from the outset that outlines the nannies duties and responsibilities can help to prevent job creep. In the event that parents require a nanny to take on additional duties and tasks, or in this case, travel with the job, communication is key to ensure everyone understands and agrees to new expectations. 

If these tasks are outside the scope of the original work agreement, the nanny should be compensated accordingly and, in this scenario, if a nanny is still working to contracted hours and fulfilling usual responsibilities, they should be remunerated as normal. Regardless of location.

KEY TAKEAWAYS:

One common theme among the stories above, and others we’ve seen on forums, is that unclear expectations, responsibilities and boundaries are the source of problems. Through clear communication, situations like these can be easily avoided to ensure both family and nanny have a smooth and pleasant experience for the duration of your time together! Interviews are also a good window for both parties to address expectations, possible changes in circumstance and ways of working. Read our recent post for additional tips on important things to cover at interview stage.

6 TIPS TO KEEP YOUR CHILDREN ENTERTAINED AFTER CHRISTMAS

Whether you’re a parent, a guardian or someone who simply enjoys ‘looking after your sister’s children and then handing them back when a tantrum starts’, you can’t deny the pleasure that comes from watching children experience the magic of Christmas.

That warm fuzzy feeling you get seeing them follow Father Christmas’ snowy footprints down the hall, the excitement they experience unwrapping stocking presents, or the meticulous inspection of reindeer carrot remnants is like no other. 

But one problem we all run into is when our children, overwhelmed with excitement and choice, unbox every new toy on Christmas Day, leaving nothing new to enjoy in the days and weeks that follow. We all dread hearing the words “I’m boorrrred” in a drawn out whine. So, to help parents the world over, we’re sharing some of our top tips to help you avoid that very situation, and keep your kids entertained that little bit longer over the holiday period and into the New Year!

  1. Out of sight, out of mind

Now, we’re not suggesting you hide presents from your children but with a plethora of toys and games to choose from, it’s no surprise their attention span leaps from item to item and they want to play with everything one after the other. So after the initial unwrapping and excitement, leave out a small selection of toys for immediate use (typically this might be something particularly novel, like an action figure or a toy) and, while they’re busy playing, seize the opportunity to pack away items that could be played with down the line (like board games or crafts of any kind).

In doing so, children will still have plenty of things to play with long after Christmas Day and a wide variety of activities to keep them engaged.

2. Plan a New Year Party 

With only a few short days in between Christmas and New Year’s Eve, planning other activities like a New Year’s celebration is a wonderful way to stagger the use of toys and break up the post-Christmas period.

Now, Lord knows we can barely keep our eyes open past 9pm so this needn’t be an until midnight affair but get the children excited by letting them help coordinate New Year festivities at home. Tasks such as the below will give them a sense of responsibility and pride in their own work, as well as allow their creativity to shine through and help focus their attention on something new once Christmas is over:

  • Picking out their favourite activity (ies) for the evening. This could be simple, like choosing a favourite board game to play with family members, or for more of a creative approach, encourage your children to devise a new game for everyone to participate in. 

  • Making decorations like bunting, paper chains, or even glittery invitations and posters to ‘advertise’ the shin dig beforehand!

  • Simple party prep, like blowing up balloons and laying out place names at the dinner table, 

  • “Catering” - okay, we don’t even want to think what canapes conceptualised by children would entail but you can still let them get involved in ‘catering’ by encouraging them to pick out a meal or snacks that are their particular favourite, and letting them help shop for and prepare the items.


3. Get Crafty

Call us old fashioned but it’s always nice to receive thanks for a gift you’ve given and doubly so when that comes in the form of a homemade thank you card. 

Arts and crafts are always a great option to keep children busy and enhance their creativity and thank you cards are a simple, yet lovely place to start. 

A simple pack of card is all you need and the rest is up to you (or, more specifically, your children). You could simply use pens and pencils to draw on the cards, make the most out of leftover wrapping paper, Christmas cards, magazines or newspaper cuttings to form a collage, or add a touch of sparkle with glitter. The world is your oyster on this one!

4. Playdates with family or friends. While this may sound obvious, it’s one that many people often forget about over the Christmas period but it’s the perfect opportunity for children to take a moment away from presents and engage in social interaction with other kids. In doing so it also spurs their imagination through play and teaches the importance of sharing each others’ toys.

5. Get outdoors! It’s perhaps a bit wishful thinking to say ‘make the most of the snow and take the children outdoors for a wintry adventure’ or ‘take them tobogganing’ but we definitely encourage you to get out and about for a walk as often as possible over the festive period. Not only will it break up or fill part of the day, but it’s also a great opportunity for children to be in nature and see wildlife that they may not have experienced at other times in the year. 

If sledding and snowball fights aren’t on the cards then even something as simple as ‘spot the robin’ is a fun and engaging game that will make a wintry walk all that more enjoyable!

6. Just Dance. No, this isn’t a statement, we’re talking about the game. This one is absolutely hysterical both to watch and to participate in and all players have to do is mimic the dance routine they see on screen. Just Dance is a good form of physical exercise and will keep everyone toasty warm on a cold afternoon, it’s one that the whole family can get involved in, it will tire kids out (particularly useful if you’re looking for a mellow evening), and it’s so entertaining that it’s an easy way to pass the time.


If your family owns a console of any kind, you can buy the games here or, if you’re not console-owners, then you can find routines on YouTube just as easily.